Thoughts of the shower…and the shower shared. That’s when I felt your kiss but you held back and just turned away 😦
It’s confusing, isn’t it? One moment you think you’ve found your soul mate, the next moment he’s stopped calling. You rack your brain for any clue that would explain his behavior. Nothing. Zero. You got along well, he worshipped the ground you walked on. He was smitten by you as much as you were by him. Or so you thought.
They say for most guys, it’s normal to pull away just when a relationship is about to move forward. And the big reason (though not the only one) why the guy does this:
He’s afraid to commit.
The good news is that once a man withdraws from you for this reason, he’s most likely into you. You’ve struck a chord in his feelings, you’ve reached his heart, and he’s falling in love with you, if he hasn’t yet. Which is why he’s afraid. He feels the need to get away before you change his world.
If hope that is the case, but it is definitely complicated than what I thought. It is more than maybe an emotional issue. Perhaps he’s been through this experience before. Perhaps his world’s been turned upside down once too many. He’s not going to feel trapped again. He wants to protect his world, so he plays it safe. He pulls away. And so what about me?
What should I do?
I guess nothing…In short, leave him alone. Give him the space he wants—that’s what he’s trying to communicate by his withdrawal.
Ok, fine and so I am moving on. I don’t want to feel hopeful neither feel helpless. Worth the wait or not, life goes on.